Monique Carmela

Trauma-Informed Self-Expression & Relationships Coach

A little bit about me…

Hello, I’m Monique but you can call me Mon..

For many years I struggled with accepting me for who I really was, I felt completely lost and disconnected. I was deeply afraid of what others thought of me, of not fitting in and held the belief that I was never going to be enough for anyone or anything. 

I pushed everyone away before they could get too close and when they did get too close I would sabotage the relationship. I was overwhelmed by emotional triggers and felt hopeless.

12 years ago I embarked on an incredible journey of self discovery where I have received the teachings and practices that have allowed me to cultivate UNSHAKEABLE self love, acceptance and discover that I was always more than enough and worthy beyond measure.

I now get to live life on my terms, authentically and unapologetically and support other amazing humans to do the same!

I manifested my dream partner and through all the ups and downs we have co-created a beautiful and deeply connected relationship. We re-ignited the passion, love and intimacy after having our little boy and working through many layers of trauma and relationship conflict and resentment.

I have overcome deep shame (especially around self-expression and sexuality) and found my voice and confidence to express myself, my emotions, needs, desires and boundaries. I am now able to experience incredible pleasure, joy, intimacy, connection and love and have built a truly beautiful relationship with my partner after years of struggling in conflict and building resentment.

And now I am here to support you on your journey to building and nurturing conscious, harmonious relationships. To feel empowered and confident within yourself so that you can express yourself with confidence and ease and experience incredible bliss, pleasure, connection, joy and love within yourself and in your relationships.

Monique Carmela

Trauma-Informed Self-Expression & Relationships Coach, Breathwork & Somatic Experiencing Facilitator.

Monique supports her clients and students to reconnect to their authentic self, reclaim their personal power, express themselves authentically and unapologetically, and build conscious, harmonious relationships.

Over the past 4 years, she has worked with thousands of people in person and online through energetic transmissions, intuitive coaching, and integrative embodiment journeys.

It is my mission to support you in reclaiming your innate worthiness and building the confidence to express yourself so that you can THRIVE in your life and relationships.

Education & Qualifications:

❥  VITA Sex, Love & Relationships Coaching

❥  Biodynamic Breathwork Trauma Release System (BBTRS)

❥  200 HR Yoga Teacher Training at YogaRenew

❥  Diploma of Remedial Massage

❥  Diploma of Fitness & Personal Training

❥  Countless Workshops, Retreats & Online Programs, 12+ Years of Life Experience & THOUSANDS of Hours Reading, Exploring, Learning the Art of Holding Space, Healing Core Wounds, Releasing Limiting Beliefs & Finding My Own Authentic Expression

❥  I have been working with clients in person and online, 1:1 and in group settings for over 3 years

I support my clients to…

Build the confidence to express themselves authentically and unapologetically in all areas of their life

In the bedroom… enhance your pleasure and experience next-level orgamic bliss and connection by activating your sacred voice.

❥ In your relationship… speak from your heart, and express your needs, desires, and boundaries with confidence and ease that allows you and your lover to become closer and deeply connected with one another.

❥ In your business… whether you have a business or desire to start one, I will support you to discover your authentic voice and purpose and gain clarity on what next steps to take so that you can feel confident putting yourself out in the world, so you can THRIVE and share your gifts.

Together we uncover the root causes that may be preventing you from expressing yourself and thriving in all areas of your life. From there, I guide and support you to heal and integrate past trauma and wounds and release limiting beliefs and outdated patterns that are holding you back from living the life you desire.

We do this through desire mapping, conversation, somatic experiencing, breathwork, and sacred tantric embodiment practices that will support you in letting go of the old and embracing your authentic self so you can step into a new, exciting chapter where you feel EMPOWERED and confident to create the life and relationships you desire.

To discover if we’re an aligned fit for one another and to explore your next steps on this journey, book a complimentary discovery call below.

Work With Me

Private Coaching

I specialize in supporting women to confidently express themselves in the bedroom and within their intimate relationships so that they can have mind-blowing orgasmic experiences, deliciously EPIC sex, and deeply connected, harmonious relationships where they feel seen, heard, loved, and appreciated.

Through 1:1 coaching and embodiment sessions I support you in understanding what’s churning within you, what’s aching to be seen, heard, felt, and acknowledged. Working closely with biodynamic breathwork and somatic experiencing to heal core wounds, release suppressed emotion, and gain greater awareness, insights, and lessons that your life experience offers you. Together we can transform your deepest pain and greatest hardships into your greatest gifts, triumphs, lessons, and growth.

I will guide and support you to move forward into a new state of being, complete old cycles, and step into the next chapter of your life where you can create the life and relationships you truly desire.

1:1 Coaching Package | 16 Weeks

Are you ready to live authentically and unapologetically, to reclaim your worthiness, and personal power, and THRIVE in all areas of life? This is for you!

❥ Weekly 1:1 Coaching Sessions via Zoom

(1x Integration Week Each Month, 12 Calls in Total over 16 Weeks)

❥ Messenger Support via Telegram

❥ Homeplay: Weekly Guided Practice

Bonus 1: 6 months of access to The Embody Membership

Bonus 2: Human Design Reading

Bonus 3: 1KG Seleno Health Ceremonial Cacao

1:1 Coaching Package | 6 Months

Are you ready to live authentically and unapologetically, to reclaim your worthiness, and personal power, and THRIVE in all areas of life? This is for you!

❥ Fortnightly 1:1 Coaching Sessions via Zoom

❥ Messenger Support via Telegram

❥ Homeplay: Weekly Guided Practice

Bonus 1: 6 months of access to The Embody Membership

Bonus 2: Human Design Reading

Bonus 3: 1KG Seleno Health Ceremonial Cacao

Deeply Connected Couples Coaching Package | 16 Weeks

For couples looking to re-ignite the spark, improve their communication, and deepen their connection and intimacy.

❥ Weekly Coaching Sessions via Zoom

❥ Email & Messenger Support via Telegram

❥ Homeplay: Weekly Guided Practice

Bonus 1: 3x Human Design Readings (1x Individual Reading each + Couples Reading)

Bonus 3: 1KG Seleno Health Ceremonial Cacao & Guided Cacao Connection Ritual

Private Group Experience

Book Your Private Cacao Ceremony, Breathwork, And Sound Healing Immersion or Retreat

Creating safe spaces to come together, to connect in community, heal the past and release limiting patterns, to grow and expand into your greatest potential so that you can truly THRIVE and live an abundant life.

My partner Liam Miko & I offer private workshops and retreats, guiding you and your group through a unique and profound healing experience, incorporating biodynamic breathwork, cacao ceremony, sound healing, and meditation to support you in healing from past experiences and releasing limiting patterns and beliefs. Guiding you home to your true essence, supporting you in accessing your full expression, higher states of consciousness, and spiritual connection, and cultivating a deep love for life.

Send us an email or book a complimentary discovery call

Online Experiences

Justine has joined us for The Sacred Art of Loving Yourself, my signature program.

She also joined us for my Authentic Boundaries program and has been working with me 1:1 for the past 6 months.

She has experienced tremendous growth, and mind-blowing transformations, and cultivated lasting change in her life and in her relationships, free to be fully, authentically herself.

Tonia, a recent student, and graduate of Authentic Boundaries,

Tonia had an incredibly transformative experience in this 6-week container and we can't wait to share her journey with you!

Authentic Boundaries Live gave Tonia the support, tools, and practices to support her in coming into her fullest, most authentic expression and the ability to express her needs and set authentic boundaries with ease and confidence.

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